A secret safe to tell by Naomi Hunter
Ill. by Karen Erasmus. JoJo Publishing, 2014. ISBN 9780987587916.
'He said I would get into BIG TROUBLE if I told anyone... I never
wanted to be bad.'
'He said I would UPSET a lot of people if they knew what I had done... I didn't want to make anyone cry'
'He made hurts in places where Band-Aids could not reach... '
'I tried to heal the pain but I wasn't strong enough.'
'I thought about TELLING... but he said I'd be a LIAR... and
no one would ever believe me.
One in five children will be sexually assaulted in some way before
their 18th birthday.
I remember being told that stark fact at a staff meeting in 1990
and, like many of my colleagues, didn't really understand it, let
alone grasp its reality. That sort of thing didn't happen to kids at
our school, to kids we knew. But as we undertook courses in
protective behaviours and mandatory reporting the reality started to
hit. Sadly, it would seem that nearly 25 years later the statistics
haven't changed according to Bravehearts but the
awareness has. Sadly, given the Royal Commission and the prosecution
of some high profile personalities, it is clear that this does
happen to kids in our school and kids we know. But, because of that
Royal Commission and those prosecutions, there is a greater
awareness of the problem and children are finding the courage to
tell and adults are taking the time to listen.
A secret safe to tell, written by someone whose dedication
makes it plain that she was a victim, is a step in helping empower
young children to tell, and if the first person doesn't listen then
keep on telling until someone does. Tenderly capturing the thoughts
and emotions of someone who has been abused - 'My heart felt BROKEN.
... I think it started to CHANGE COLOUR' - this story will speak to
the child and perhaps give them the courage to speak too, so they
too can break his power and swing HIGH into the sky where his hands
cannot reach. At the end of the book there is a list of numbers a
child can call and know there is someone who will listen and act on
what they have to say.
On September 12, Bravehearts will host its annual White Balloon Day
and is asking the question, 'Who are you protecting?'
(#whoRUprotecting) and encouraging each of us to snap a
#whoRUprotecting selfie: Answer the question 'who are you
protecting' by writing a name on your palm and display the answer in
a photograph.
When Tom from Int Books
sent me this book to review, I read it and put it aside knowing
there would be a perfect time to share it. This is that time.
Difficult though this subject may be and difficult though this
review has been, the children in your school deserve to have access
to this book - you just never know whose life it might change.
Barbara Braxton