Max's divorce earthquake by Rachel Brace
Illus. by Angela Perrini. Little Steps, 2019. ISBN: 9781925839142.
(Ages: 4+) Highly recommended. Themes: Divorce, Emotions, Families,
Change. Divorce can be a very difficult time for all in a family and
this book, written by a psychologist who assists families during
separations, will truly assist parents to help their children cope
with the complex feelings they may experience during a divorce.
The analogy of an earthquake is a very clever device in this story
and shows the level of disturbance that divorce can bring to a
child's life in a clear and enlightening way.
The story shows how the parents in this child's life spend time
talking and explaining the many feelings Max is expressing and that
they don't judge him but support him to identify and cope with them.
The physical changes to Max's everyday life are woven through the
story. The two homes he lives in, where he leaves his things, who is
picking them up from school, what his parents will say to each other
when they meet, are all impacting on his life. He expresses his
worries through the story and shows how they minimize towards the
end. It was very satisfying to see that Max realizes that his life
will settle down and that his parents will always love him, even
though his family life has changed dramatically.
The wonderful illustrations for this book done by Italian-born
Angela Perrini, capture the mood of each page to perfection. The
simple water-colour based pictures show us how rocky Max's world is
at the beginning and show the calmness that transcends towards the
end of the book as he works through his emotions and comes to
realise that even though his life has changed dramatically he can
still feel the love that envelopes him from his family (like the
blanket shown in the last illustration).
I would recommend this book for every school and library as it would
be a must read for parents and caregivers struggling to talk to
their children about a separation or divorce. A book trailer
is available.
Gabrielle Anderson