Mum and Dad Glue by Kes Gray
Hodder Children's Books, 2009. ISBN: 9780340957110.
Highly recommended ages 5 and up. When a little boy's parents seem
likely to separate he experiences the normal roller coaster of
emotions, from concern for his parents to guilt, worry and denial of
the inevitable. Consequently, he goes looking for some glue to 'mend
them' and fix their marriage. His journey leads him to the adhesive
shop owned by a kindly woman. She explains that he is not responsible
for his parents' problems and that their love for him will continue no
matter what may eventuate. He leaves feeling far more positive and
accepting of the situation.
This simple story, told entirely in rhyme, is sensitive and uplifting
and would be a great support for any child whose parents are unhappy
and contemplating divorce. Lee Wilding's illustrations contain simple
character drawings and muted colours, with each picture showing cracks
in the pavement, bed, cars and numerous items with which the boy is
surrounded. Children in this situation are regularly offered advice by
school friends, teachers and other adults. Whether or not the intention
is to show the 'glue shop lady' as a psychologist or merely a random
adult, the child is encouraged to openly discuss his feelings and hence
share the burden and seek help in the healing process.
Many classes focus on different types of families, be they blended,
extended or those which fit the traditional mould. This would be
another good text to use in resourcing such a unit as well as to assist
children whose parents seem likely to separate.
Jo Schenkel