Respect by Rachel Brian
Wren and Rook, 2020. ISBN: 9781526362216. hbk., 54pp.
(Age: 5-12) Highly recommended. Subtitled, Consent, boundaries
and being in charge of YOU, this little volume of humorous
illustrations and helpful information is sure to be a winner in any
library, classroom or home. Right from the front cover, where a
stick figure wearing a crown, declares "I'm the ruler of my own
body" to the Help! section at the back of the book, Rachel Brian has
produced a fabulous and very timely self-help book that clearly
shows readers many examples of just what consent means.
The quirky illustrations are even part of the "What's inside"
(Contents Page) and readers know right from the start that they will
learn: "What's consent?" "Ways to set a boundary", "How to support
your friends", "Do you get to change your mind?" "Is getting hurt by
people/badgers OK?" and "What makes a friendship healthy".
I particularly liked the section titled "Does someone's outfit tell
you if they consent" where a figure is dressed in a swimsuit, but
has no intention of going swimming. The advice is "Don't assume you
know why someone is dressed in a particular way". Another section
that caught my eye was the mini comic on tickling, when one friend
did not want to be tickled and eventually his friend thought of
something else fun to do.
This is an engaging and very clever way of bringing a very serious
topic out into the open and giving readers strategies for setting
boundaries. There is a trailer
from Blue Seat Studios on Vimeo.
Pat Pledger