The space we're in by Katya Balen
Illus. by Laura Carlin. Bloomsbury, 2019. ISBN: 9781526610942.
(Age: Mid upper primary +) Highly recommended. Katya Balen's The
Space We're In is a moving story about autism. The behaviours
and the situations experienced by Max and his family members are
perceptively painted. It would be a hard-hearted reader who could
remain unmoved.
Autism is grounded in the life and world, universe and cosmos. It is
a book about love, acceptance and joy. It's about where we all fit
in and how love binds us together - that we are all made of stardust
- and somehow everything makes sense like the existence of the
Golden Ratio.
The story is told from the perspective of ten year old Frank. He is
initially embarrassed by and ashamed of his brother, five year old
autistic Max. He loves and protects Max but (before he learns to be
proud) he joins others who deride Max. As if life isn't hard enough,
his family is knocked for six with further tragedy. Somehow love
prevails through time and the care of steadfast friends, family and
community.
I want to lend this book to friends with autistic children. I want
teachers to read this book to classes to build an empathy for
disability and the lived experiences of families. It's a searingly
sad but uplifting book. It helps us to understand our own part in
community.
There is a lot a teacher could do with this book. Frank has an
affinity for numbers. Code permeates the book. When deciphered, it
forms chapter headings, which make a lot of sense e.g. meltdown,
sorry, joy, fury, magic, wild, fight, treasure. A wordle created
from the vocabulary would capture the essence of living with
disability. Text to text background reading for children and
teachers are Maurice Sendak's Where the Wild Things Are and
Michael Rosen's We're Going on a Bear Hunt.
The illustrations by Laura Carlin, including quirky fonts and
layouts, are in themselves, a soft and subtle visual journey that
travels with the storyline.
Wendy Jeffery