The worst pain in the world by Nicky Johnston
Arthritis Foundation of Victoria, 2014. ISBN 9780992545215
Bella is just like every other little girl with a birthday on the
horizon. She's so excited preparing for it doing all the things that
other little girls do. This is going to be a VERY special day for
her.
On birthday morning, Bella wakes up really excited, like all other
little girls, but unlike other little girls Bella's body is wracked
with pain. Her legs ache, her arms are stiff like rusty robots - it
even hurts to brush her hair! Yesterday she could do anything she
wanted, today she can scarcely move and all those things she was
looking forward to will be impossible. While everyone else comes and
has a fabulous time, she will only be able to sit and watch. For
Bella has arthritis, a disease that strikes at least 1 in 1000 kids
in Australia, particularly girls.
Arthritis is an invisible pain, so while her guests need bandaids,
and ice and sign Ethan's cast on his broken arm, no one sees Bella's
pain, particularly as she tries to hide it because even worse than
the physical pain is the pain of missing out on the fun and NOT
being like all the other girls. Even though she is in too much pain
to eat her birthday cupcakes, to play the games or even open her
presents no one notices until she bursts into tears when Dad takes
the group party photo. That changes things.
Arthritis is an insidious, invisible chronic disease with many
symptoms but it is characterised by pain and tiredness, and
sometimes the meds for it can be as horrible as the disease itself.
And the invisibility wears two cloaks - firstly there are no outward
signs of it, no marks or rashes or bruises or deformities and that
then makes it invisible to teachers, friends and sometimes families.
So often it is not treated as seriously as more obvious things like
cuts, breaks, diabetes, asthma and so forth. Yet it is very real and
debilitating. This book, which is an essential in any collection and
which should be brought to the attention of teaching staff, shines a
light on this cruelty giving it visibility and validity.
But as Bella shows, even worse than the physical pain is the pain of
being different, of being left out, of not being like all the other
kids and so at the end there are suggestions for how schools can
seek help to help students with the disease as well as ideas for
individuals to manage it. Many of these are adaptable to the school
situation such as wearing a badge so that others recognise the day's
pain level and having worthwhile, fun activities available as
alternatives to activity when necessary. Having arthritis is tough
enough without being marginalised because of the pain.
Seek out the Bellas in your school and talk to them, their parents
and their healthcare worker to make the library a welcoming and safe
haven for them on the days when the jumping castle is a bar too
high.
Barbara Braxton